Last fall I
finally converted my porch wannabe into a proper front porch. It turned
out to be one of the best worst moves I ever made, as now all I want to do is
sit on it. Even in the scorching days of summer and with the house needing a
good vacuuming or dusting, I find myself lured to that place to enjoy the fresh
air and to idle away stolen moments in reading, reflection, and rest.
It saddens me to
see so many lovely porches going to waste these days. Brought up with backyard
swimming pools or barbecue grills, Gen Y-ers (X-ers?) who are fortunate enough
to have porches don’t appear to know how to use them. Or maybe they just don’t
have the time. But even retired Baby Boomers, who should have the time, seem reluctant to gravitate to the front of
the house.
In an effort to
return people to the time-honored tradition of porch-sitting, I’m suggesting
the following:
1. Keep it simple.
I love looking at the porches featured in my
favorite southern lifestyle magazine. They advise decking them out with settees,
usually in wicker, and accessorizing with over-stuffed cushions and colorful pillows.
For an extra dose of charm, throw in a few potted plants and a chandelier. (Did
I say chandelier?) Step onto one of
these porches, and before you know it, you’re craving a mint julep and
referring to it the veranda. But a
word of caution here: This kind of charm can be more trouble than it’s worth.
When I planned my porch, I wasn’t exactly sure what I wanted, but I knew what I
didn’t want—another room to clean and
take care of. I purchased simple but comfortable furniture that would withstand
all types of weather and didn’t require a lot of cleaning, maintenance, or
hauling in and out of doors. I also kept the number of furnishings to a minimum.
The “floor” is flagstone, which means I don’t have to freak out over a few
fallen twigs or leaves or the occasional splat of bird poop. My porch gives me
a pleasant spot where I can unwind and not be reminded of the need for upkeep. However,
it hasn’t yet shielded me from the reminder my flowerbed needs weeding. I’m
working on that.
My idea... |
Screens around
porches are good for blocking things we don’t
want like flies and mosquitoes, but they also block things we do want—waves and greetings to and from
passersby. For me, that’s a big part of front-porch appeal. The market offers
plenty of unobtrusive products for deterring pests (the insect kind, not people
kind) without sacrificing views or closing off opportunities for quick,
neighborly visits. Speaking of those visits, extra chairs should be
available for guests to have a seat and chat a while. Also, it doesn’t hurt to
have a pitcher of iced tea (or a bottle of wine) chilling in the fridge.
My idea of perfect porch entertaining |
3. Sit a spell.
Many years ago,
as a busy twenty-something, I spent a weekend visiting my grandmother
in a black-dot, East Texas town. The time passed way too quickly, and as Bill
and I headed home to another hectic work
week in a crowded city, I was tired just thinking about all I had to do when I
got there. We passed a little frame house that listed slightly starboard and
was badly in need of a paint job. But its saving grace was a wrap-around porch,
where an old man sat, calmly rocking and looking as if he didn’t have a care in
the world.
If you’re lucky
enough to have a front porch, take advantage of it, if only for a few minutes
each day. Make time to put your feet up and enjoy a cool drink. Listen to the birds, take in a sunset, call
out to the neighbors.
The image of
that old man has stayed with me for years, and I think it has fueled much of my
porch obsession. I can’t say for sure what he was thinking that day (maybe that
he needed to weed his flowerbed), but I do know what I was thinking: That fellow knows how to use a porch.
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My parents used to live on their front porch when I was a kid. They'd sit out there in the dark with their drinks, listening to records through the open window behind them, and watch all the neighborhood happenings. HAHAHAHA...They still live on their porch, even though it's screened in. The neighbors know they're there and always wave to them; they sit out there and watch TV (which those of us who can still hear can hear all over the neighborhood!) I just totally agree; porch living is such a great idea. And I agree; I do not making it another "room" to maintain! Simple...
ReplyDeleteI love envisioning that scene of your parents sitting on the porch and listening to their records!Glad to know the tradition continues.
DeleteWell said! I do love a good porch-sit - and I'm with you about keeping it simple!
ReplyDeleteCan't believe it took me so long to discover this!
DeleteGrew up a porch sitting southern girl. As an adult, I have a lanai. Now I am a lanai lingering!
ReplyDeleteLanai lingering. Love it!
ReplyDeleteLove the photos!
ReplyDeleteWe don't have a front porch in Vegas, but our little patio is quite nice. And no bugs!
Thank you, Sonia. Glad you're enjoying your bug-less patio, but don't get too comfortable and decide to stay there! :-)
DeleteI must confess I'm a back patio sitter, but you definitely make front porch sitting look and sound appealing!
ReplyDeleteTerri, patio sitting definitely has its appeal
Delete--such as enjoying morning coffee out there in your robe and slippers. Perfect way to start the day!